Wedding

Still no leads on the bridesmaid dresses. But, to be honest, I haven’t really been looking. Nothing looks right and, frankly, it’s becoming more of a stressor than it should be.

Luckily there’s still time. I’m going to wait until after my sister wedding. Then, once the dust settles, I plan to steal her away for a weekend to dress-shop hop and see it anything looks right. Until then I plan to casually dress shop online, but I’m not going to let it eat away at me.

There may not have been any leads in the dress department, but there have been in the boots department. :)

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Yes, I’ve kindly requested that all my bridesmaids wear cowgirl boots for the wedding. I think they’re fun and it gives me an excuse to wear a pair of my own for photos (I also have my eye out for some cute navy heels for the ceremony).

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I know the cowgirl boots are kinda “the thing” to do now (especially with rustic weddings) and a tad cliche/overdone, but I can’t get over how adorable they are. The more photos I see of the look, the more I love them, and the more I can’t wait to see my girls wearing them.

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I purchased my first pair of cowgirl boots my junior year of college (for $32.99 from Target) and literally wore them to the ground. They survived 5 glorious years of line dancing, denim skirts, and summer dresses before they literally fell apart of me. Hey, for $32.99 from Target – I’d say 5 years is a pretty good run for cowgirl boots.

When the time came, I immediately hopped on Target.com and bought another pair (for $29.99), a pair that I still wear today and a pair that found their way into our engagement photos.

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When I first started telling people about my cowgirls boot idea, there was a little concern about budget, especially since I’m trying to keep it so cheap for the dress. Well, I knew from personal experience that cowgirl boots do not have to cost hundreds of dollars. I’d been eyeing Target for some deals (sadly the ones I purchased for $29.99 are no longer in stock) and found these after a tweet from one of my bridesmaids.

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This is the best deal I’ve seen thus far for the price. Old Navy has some options, but the quality isn’t there. Overstock.com has also have a few boots pop up recently.

One of my bridesmaids also thought of the brilliant idea of checking out local consignment shops to see if any boots make their way there. I’ve also had a cousin step forward with an offer to loan her cowgirl boots to a bridesmaid if any needs them. I bet if I asked around I could find a few more friends/ family members who would be willing to do the same thing.

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Cowgirl boots will only be a big expense for the ladies if they choose it to be. My goal has always been to keep their costs minimal and I plan to keep that goal in tact. Even if I told the girls they needed silver or nude shoes, I’d bet some girls would still have to go out and purchase shoes (for at or around the same price as the boots). I’ve only been in one wedding (my little brother’s) and the bride requested silver shoes. Since none of us had them, she ordered silver shoes off DSW and we all reimbursed her. She made it easy. I preferred that.

What has you experience been with shoes as a bridesmaid? Or when choosing shoes for your own bridesmaids?

  

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Wedding: Engagement Parties

by Meghann on May 14, 2012

I’ve only ever attended two engagement parties in my lifetime.

The first was for my cousin Angel. She was living in another state at the time and had only been dating her fiance a few months before he proposed. (FYI: they recently celebrated their 10 year wedding anniversary and have two of the cutest little girls on the planet). After the proposal, my aunt and uncle quickly threw together an engagement party for their next visit home simply so the rest of the family could meet the fiance and welcome him to the family. It was really a mix of a graduation party (Angel had just graduated from UAB) and an engagement party, but what it came down to was that we were all there to meet Jeremy and celebrate their recent engagement. I was only 16 at the time and remember being in awe of the whole engagement and wedding process.

The second was for a good friend of mine who was planning on having a long engagement so her future mother-in-law (who was apparently really into party planning) threw her and her fiance a gorgeous engagement party by the water. There was a good food, the obligatory through-the-years slideshow, and a dozen or so toasts wishing the happy couple luck on their future together. Unfortunately, the “long engagement” was put on an indefinite hold. The wedding never happened and the couple are no longer together. It was a lovely party though.

Because of my lack of experience with engagement parties, I never really considered even having one. Last weekend, the topic of engagement parties came up with my sister at lunch and we both weren’t even sure whether people still had them or not. My guess is, yes, they do, but probably when circumstances require one – such as giving the bride or groom a chance to meet the family, if there’s a long engagement, or the couple’s friends just want and excuse to throw a party!

Since the topic was still hot on my mind, I had to chuckle when I saw a post go up Thursday on Every Last Detail on the very subject.

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Yep, people are still having engagement parties. There’s a proper etiquette behind it and everything. :)

Did you have an engagement party? Or are you planning one?

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Wedding: A Tour of Our Wedding Website

May 11, 2012

The other month I shared with you the process of building our wedding website, today I thought it would be fun to give you a tour of the final product! No password needed today. Welcome to our site! Our first stop is the “Our Story” page. This is honestly one of the first pages I more »

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Wedding: Our Photographer

May 10, 2012

I can’t believe I haven’t shared this yet! Derek and I have a photographer! My cousin Andrea (Andrea Hubbell Photography) is an AMAZING photographer. I’ve been drooling over her work for years now and had been secretly planning on asking her to take our wedding photos even before we got engaged. Andrea is based in more »

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Wedding: The Guest List

May 2, 2012

I almost didn’t blog about this subject. Mainly because it’s a touchy one. Not just for my wedding, but I’m sure for every bride or groom out there who are currently planning one. “The guest list” can be a dirty word when you’re in the thick of planning! It was actually the bane of mine more »

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Wedding: Something Old – My Mother’s Veil

April 27, 2012

Wasn’t my mother stunning on her wedding day? It was 1982 and lace and poof was big. My mom rocked it. She simply glowed. Fast forward 30 years later… and me? Well… let’s just say it doesn’t have quite the same effect. Feel free to laugh. My mom did. Thankfully my mom was never one more »

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