BUT: as a girl who recovered from an ED that came from what was first a healthy, reasonable weight loss, i’ve gotta admit that i see warning signs from your last couple weeks of posts. you can’t censor how you feel, and no one should be offended or judgmental of what you write. you’re also obviously a compelling individual if your blog has such a following- but as a delurking reader, i’m commenting out of mild concern, not judgment, offense or anything like that. it’s hard, like hangry said, to determine someone’s tone over a blog, but over the past few weeks, your perceived “tone” about food has been persnickety, joyless and overly cautious- ESPECIALLY when dining out, but generally most of the time, except when the food you eat is prepared solely by you. these are all characteristics that i began to take on when my ED started to develop. if i were you, i’d just pay attention to where those somewhat restrictive, tense thoughts have been coming from and try to nip them in the bud. you’re too active, interesting, and downright PRETTY to let your healthy lifestyle turn into something significantly less so.

and i wish that someone had told me that at sixteen years old!